why does everyone keep saying that they hate backstabbers. what do you consider as backstabbing? if someone remains a friendly relationship with you while telling other people that she/he can't actually stand your guts? well excuse her for not wanting to start a fight. i mean seriously. if you don't like a person. you do not have to go around telling everyone that you hate that person. wouldn't that make the person who was, frankly speaking, not being a backstabber at all, more popular?

it's not like if you don't want to befriend someone you'd go i hate you in their face. that is just plain rude and lack of E.Q. and to me, more irritable than what u call backstabbers.

i dislike hypocrites.
those people who tell you that they hate eg. girls with rebonded hair and go about kicking up a big fuss. after a few weeks u see them having rebonded hair. that's is so loathesome. they dislike people clearly because of jealousy and simply say things to make others seem annoying when in fact they are the ones.

and what i really hate is when i confirm with someone whether they are metting me. i would ask three times to confirm and they all said yes i'd DEFINITELY come. not maybe not probably but DEFINITELY and in the end, they don't show up. frnkaly if you think that you can't make it or you don't want to come just SAY it. or at least tell me that u can probably come. at least i'll know that you have tried. don't promise me something which you cannot keep.